listening is one of the toughest thing to do, believe it or not. I've come to realize that what kills relationship faster is the inability of both partners to listen to each other each one wanting to say something without giving the other person chance to speak. please guys try and listen to your woman, they feel loved but when you just brush her words aside then you've succeeded in killing her spirit even if she doesn't show it. women like to chatter and the men in most cases are not used to chattering away like the women so one advise to the men is PLEASE i beg you, spend time listening to the women's chatter even if you don't feel like it. if it seem tough for you then try out this listening skills and try to use some of it:
L- Look at her when she is talking to you
I-inquire i.e.
ask her questions to make it seem like you are really enjoying her chat
S- Summarize what
you are being told and before you know it you are already chatting back
T- Take note of some of her words you may discover what she likes and what she doesn't
E- Encourage her speaker when she is down by saying soft words to her
N- Never tune out of the chat.
women do same i'm not taking sides with the guys o! lol
true true ngy kip it up
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