Hey friends,

Welcome to the next edition of singles and the almost married column, in the last edition we tried talking about the DON’T’S before marriage, so we shall continue from where we stopped, the next one is:

·        Getting married because her parents are wealthy

Jibola thinks he could marry jade just because she was the only child of her parents who were senators, after trying his best jade kept insulting him like he was worth nothing, because she practically feeds him and gives him money. Isn’t that funny or rather annoying, well that is because he wants immediate wealth? Guys don’t ever consider getting married to a lady just because you have your eyes on her parents’ wealth, if you do; you would lose your self-esteem, let me imagine Jibola realizes why his lady never gives him due respect, and he breaks up with her, goes to get a good job and was a made -man, and she came crawling to him, but this time he was in charge of their relationship and never cared about her parents’ wealth. Don’t that sound sweet to the ear; if he still remained with her he would never get his respect.

·        Getting married because all your mates are married

This is common with mostly ladies and a few guys too, when we see our mates getting married we think the clock is ticking so fast and we want to hurry up before we become a laughing stock, well let me tell you this, if you marry just because your friends are getting married, you will fall into the wrong hands, and end up in regrets. Most people get divorced afterwards.

·        Getting married just because she is beautiful

Men please don’t just go for the outward appearance only, not that you would not get married to a beautiful girl, yes you would, but first consider her inward beauty also. You might just prefer her inner beauty to her outward beauty. Let me remind those who have chosen to forget that the outward beauty fades away with time, but the inward beauty lasts forever. Also ladies please don’t just get married to a TDH guy only, please consider his inward looks and consider it as well. You know what they say that handsome guys are usually irresponsible, but hey, don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean you should regret being handsome or that you are irresponsible as a handsome man but I mean that the ladies should also consider other things in a man first before considering his handsome looks.